In the first part of this post, we saw how dangerous the weapon of sex can be when used by the Devil . We saw how Jesus put the level of adultery from doing the act to even thinking about the act. He basically said, if you are thinking of it, you are doing it in your heart. So, the question is what will you do if you are neck high in thinking of sex all the time. What happens if you have an enormous drive to sex. I am here to help any person who is going through the struggle with sex. I am here to tell you that you can come out of it no matter what. All you need is a desire and some perseverance. Desire is not wishing you come out of the addiction, it is wanting to come out of the addiction. Let me point out the difference between desiring and wishing. A person who wishes for something, does not want to do anything about it.. He/she wants everything delivered to their doorstep. I got news for you that ain't gonna happen. A person who wants something will do anything, absolutely anything to get it. I also want to say that no one out there can help you come out of the addiction to sex, if you really do not desire to come out of it. I am asking you to make a decision now, once and for all.... do you want to take sex God's way or man's way. The choice is yours. I want you to think. You know the guilt that attacks you every time you yield to the temptation. You also know the enjoyment yielding to sex gives. If you read the first part of this post you know exactly what Jesus told about adultery. If you have not chosen to take God's way stop reading now. I cannot help you.

But if you have decided to take God's way of sacred sex and not safe sex, I want you to congratulate you for what you have done. Its a challenge to even take up a challenge. Its going to be tough but we are going to come out of this mess.... Its time to look at the word of God again.

"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" - Matthew 5:28

Young men of God, take this as it is... You cannot lust after women, you just cannot. You have to stop and you have to stop now. How???. Let's read further.

"If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell"

No, I am not telling you to pluck out your eyes and I am pretty sure that is not what the Lord means by that. What Jesus wants to imply here is that we have to find out the root cause of our sin. We have to ask ourselves.... when do we sin?. Some lust when they go on the internet, some when they watch movies, some at their jobs when that sexy secretary walks by. If television is stopping you from going to heaven.....THROW IT AWAY. If its internet cancel the internet.. tell the people to come and take the modem away. You don't need it if you don't know how to use it. Let's look at scripture once again.

"Your eye is the lamp of your body. when your eyes are good, your whole body also is full of light"- John 11:34

That verse does not need any explanation. Do not mess with sex, look at what 17 year old Joseph did when his own master's wife made a move on him. How many young people in the church today would resist such an offer. I shudder to think about that question. He fled from the situation because he knew that if he gave it another thought, he would end up in bed with her.. Do the same in your lives too, don't wrestle with your thoughts flee from it. Let's get practical, when you know that something or someone is tempting you,,,,,,, you should abandon the thought. One way of doing this, is telling yourself strongly at that moment about your decision. You can tell yourself something like this.

"No way, No No No No No No....... I am not doing it ........... God help me. Thank you God, I will resist and the devil will flee, that's your word, God, and I believe it to be true"

Then, gain your composure back again and move on. Before ending this post I would like to point out that Christian women ought to dress modestly. Let not young men lust after you because you are showing a little too much, if you are drop dead gorgeous there is nothing you can do about it, but when you try so hard to be drop dead gorgeous, you are committing adultery with the guy who is lusting after you.